Marriage... nice word!
We talked about gay marriage and what marriage is in class these weeks but before talking about marriage in all, I think that the most important question is : Is marriage necessary ?
I have never understood why human being has created something called "Marriage". I can definitely say that I am an anti- marriage person. Ok maybe I can marry in the future, "don't talk big" our parents say, but if I marry I know that it won't be what I want and I'll be marrying just to satisfy my mates wish to marry.
Why do people want to be bounded to a person during their whole life or want to show their love by a piece of paper? Is it really necessary to show how much you love a person to the society?
It is so irrational that it has never fitted into my mind. As people started to evolve, they have complicated life to themselves for no reason. Has anybody heard of Adam and Eve getting married ?
Going to schools, wasting your time and doing a little work in your job, these rituals, procedures have made our life nothing but a tiring period of time. Then because all of this, people try to spend some time on themselves. But actually this should be their first aim.
People go to kindergarden, then primary, then high school, have a flirt, break up with him, go to university, find another guy, break up with him too, finish the university, find a job, earn money, find a mate,think..(sometimes this stage can be avoided).. engage,... and last step.. MARRY, HURRAY!! Level Completed! They have achieved what REGULAR ,as we say, people has to achieve until the rest of his life. I really don't like this settled mould.
I celebrate deeply the people who can really go beyond this scheduled monotonous stereotypic period of time.
Couldn't agree more. And I think if people want to get married (as a contract of being together to satisfy each other), they should get married. But if people do not want that, the social pressure and our old black/white streotypes (we are living with people who can't see the reasons behind bad behaviors or just the grey) shouldn't be exist anymore. We should be free not only in terms of law, in terms of society,too. That is a decision after all.
ReplyDelete"Why do people want to be bounded to a person during their whole life or want to show their love by a piece of paper?" I agree with you but still if that paper were not signed there would be lots of couples who have broken up so easily.
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